Educators possess the ability to leave an irreplaceable mark on our lives, shaping our journey in profound ways.  For me, this figure was Mrs. Kerr, my sophomore year biology teacher at Arrowhead High School. Despite being hired the second week into first semester, Mrs. Kerr's impact was immediate, allowing me to embark on a journey of learning self-advocacy—forever shifting my life. 

Growing up with ADHD and anxiety created the fear of asking for help and self-advocacy. I found myself laying low, barely getting by. I knew I had to do something about it, so I emailed her asking for help (avoiding face-to-face confrontation). As I nervously read “Come in at lunch,” I felt a wave of relief come over me.

I walked into her classroom—her face beaming as she was so happy to see me! I pulled a chair up to her desk, and she was able to help me better understand the cell. Usually I feel judged when I ask questions, but, every question I asked I felt free to be myself. 

Walking out of her classroom, I learned she was the only teacher to take time to read my 504 plan, an effort that is HUGE to me. Throughout the school year, she worked extremely hard to accommodate my 504 plan and make sure my needs were met. 

Mrs. Kerr nurtured me, checked on me, and cared for me like I was her third child. Although she didn't talk much about her personal life, she shared that she has two kids, and is happily married to her husband (who also works in education as a principal). She is not only a loving mom, but also a beacon of light to everyone around her.  

Despite my self-doubt in biology, Mrs. Kerr always believed in me and my potential—something I didn't recognize in myself at first. Through her encouragement and checking in on me, she helped me unlock the importance of  believing in myself and develop the confidence to pursue help, even when it makes me uncomfortable. 

As a senior, reflecting on my journey throughout high school, I am filled with gratitude for the impact Mrs. Kerr had on my life in such a short amount of time. Her dedication, passion, and unwavering support have not only shaped my academic career but also instilled in me the lifelong lesson of self-advocacy. She taught me that true success and happiness comes when you ask for help, a lesson I will forever be grateful for. 

Mrs. Kerr is more than just a biology teacher, she is a mom, a friend, and a life coach. She is a light switch for transformation, my switch was down when I met her, but since leaving her class has been turned on since. Through her guidance I have not only learned biology, but also the invaluable life lesson of self advocacy. Everyone needs a Mrs. Kerr, and I am forever thankful I have her in my life.