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Aging

December 9, 2022
By sarahlaux BRONZE, Raleigh, North Carolina
sarahlaux BRONZE, Raleigh, North Carolina
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Sometimes I think I’ll be counting calories for the rest of my life. Old, decrepit, gray hair flowing, bags of skin slouching under my withered, tired eyes. Years passing me by as I spend another night alone. Cooking for one, eating for less. When my skin is weathered and worn from too many summer soaks in the sun, will I hold the flab of my stomach? Press down, suck in and stare. Tears in my eyes and head in my hands just to get a taste of the body I’ll never have? Will I still be searching for it? Beauty? As it is defined by them but never by me. And when my stomach roars and my muscles ache, will I surrender to myself? To loving me or pleasing them? Will I weigh every berry I pluck from my yard? Measure each glass of wine? I fear this habit will follow me to the grave- gnawing away at my soul until my flesh finally falls off my bones and rots into the earth. Then will I be free? Will it be pleased? Or will I be, still so very hungry?


The author's comments:

The piece originated from a journal I wrote in distress. Upset with my body, my self image, those insidious, destructive thoughts that always emerge during recovery. Looking back, in a better headspace and having had time to heal, I find this piece sad but incredibly telling. I think it's indicative of what a lot of people, especially young girls, feel. The pressure to live up to those impossible standards, a perfection we'll never reach- that drives us to extremes. There's a moment that dawns where we must ask ourselves, "why?" "Who am I doing this for?" A decision we have to make to choose ourselves over those impossible standards. A moment when we've had enough, and start living for us and not for them.


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