when two people make a vow to love each other through good and bad why is it that when they have a difficulty to face they cant get through it together? My theory is that they blame their mate for the problem instead of sucking up their pride and just admitting to causing the problem. Would you really put your marriage on the line just to keep your pride which sooner or later your going to lose anyway. I next time think before you do something like that and think of what you will be losing when you could of been gaining a stronger bond between you and the one person that means the world to you and many others. You never know what you might regret.